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I have had to do waaaaaaaaayyyyy too much adulting this week.

I've been thinking about the fact that modern daily life involves an unavoidable level of risk.

People get sick.
Car accidents happen.
A passerby might slip on one's property and decide to sue.

Society has developed a way to deal with these risks by creating the concept of insurance. Spreading the risk out to a pool of people makes an ugly surprise much less catastrophic than it might be.

But this past week, an immense amount of work has gone into administering my risk management.

I have mentioned that I am going to retire soon, partly due to the fact that I have in the past year had a Significant Birthday. For various reasons, I had to change my personal insurance arrangements.

But it did not go smoothly, bureaucracies being what they are.

I have had a number of problems with doctors' bills since the Very Significant Birthday when my insurance changed, but I paid the extra money demanded and grumbled but did not think much about it. I had to cancel a dentist appointment because the insurance information was incorrect.

But I hadn't really buckled down to get at the root of the problem until now.

I had an appointment arranged with my doctor this week, but when I did the pre-check in with my doctor's office, I found that they had a company listed for my insurance that I had never even heard of before.

I am not going to bore you with the bureaucratic details (it would take much, much too long to explain), but the upshot was that I was on the phone with six different insurance entities this week, trying to straighten out various problems.

Being an adult really sucks sometimes.

Image description: Central image: a woman leaps into space with her outstretched arms and legs shading into color that suggests movement. Top and bottom: names of various insurance entities: Medicare, State Farm, Further, Portico, Delta Dental, and AmeriHealth.

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It's time to put the garden to bed.

These chores get a little more difficult every year. Thank heavens for my garden kneeling bench, but I feel the ache in my joints a little more every time I go through the process of pulling up dead plants, raking, and putting the hose and tools away for the winter. But it is immensely satisfying to get it all done.

Image description: a rather forlorn-looking concrete patio with emptied planters. Several paper bags full of yard waste are in the foreground. The background, above, shows a red garden leaf rake gathering up leaves. Top: a shovel and garden rake.

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Such vivid memories! But when I was a kid, the camera was pretty much reserved for visits from rarely seen relatives, which required us to stand on the lawn facing the sun ("Stop squinting! Smile!") in a stiff cluster with said relations. I do treasure those pix, but how I wish I had visual backup for vivid memories. Like the year we put our bulldog into my little brother's pajamas. How people laughed to see him trotting proudly along!

Then there was the horse costume I made with a friend when I was ten or eleven. I designed it and we sewed it by hand--by then I had designed and made so many doll clothes out of scraps that coming up with a horse costume didn't seem all that hard, just more stitching. Our trick or treat bag was held by her dad, who insisted on coming along.

It was a huge hit around the neighborhood, but! Though we each had had to model the body in order to get into it, we hadn't thought to practice very long. We soon found out that one person bent over, hanging onto the other's waist was super hard on the back. When we first took off, her mom did want to take a pic, but we were too impatient, and promised to stand still at the end of the evening. When we got back, we were both so sick of bending over we refused to pose, so we never did get a picture, though her mom was willing. Ah, well!

When I was a teen, and deemed too old to go out, I made a robot out of cardboard to deliver candy down a chute. That was fun. my little brother adored it. Some of the neighbor kids came round a couple of times just to see it work.

In those days, pretty much all costumes were homemade. There were some for sale in stores, but they were flimsy, made of really cheapo material, and few parents in our neighborhood wanted to waste the money. I remember my first Halloween, when I was little, my dad had mom divide an ancient sheet and cut out holes for eyes, and we were supposed to save and use the sheet ghost costumes, but mom made some for us when I was about six. I remember a bride dress, which I loved. I kept sneaking out to the garage to put it on afterwards and getting scolded. (We--friends and I-- later scored give-away cocktail dresses for acting out our stories.) I started making my own costumes with the horse.

Boston

28/10/25 08:18
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I love Boston so much, especially this area around Harvard. The trees are rich with color, the air is brisk, requiring all my layers of flimsy California-wear, and the sidewalks brick with lumps of tree roots. I love it all.

Yesterday I went with Nine to the Mapparium on the other side of the river. (The bus ride down Massachusetts Ave is great for scenery!) If you've never heard of it--I hadn't until one of the Viable Paradise workshop writers clued me in--it's an enormous glass globe that you can walk into, to see the entire world, worked in jewel-toned glass, as it was in 1935. It was constructed to be a reminder that we are all in this world together; a needed warning then, as now. (Naturally those who need it most won't see or hear.)

We had a great time looking, then testing the amazing sounds created by voices enclosed in glass.

Afterward we met up with Rushthatspeaks for tea and chocolate at L.A. Burdicks. Oh, they know how to do chocolate so, so right. Delish. We chatted and reminisced and cackled like maniacs. Today we'll visit the Fogg to see a Botticelli that is usually hidden in a private collection. I can hardly wait!

I'm coming down from the high of a very successful workshop, and a month of splendid visiting and seeing and fast-lane busy. The workshop writers are so talented and so focused, and all this in beautiful Martha's Vineyard.

Tomorrow homeward bound!
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